Irreconcilable Differences: When Marriage is No Longer an Option
Throughout the course of a marriage, couples can change a lot. Many times these changes lead partners down divergent paths, and those paths may ultimately lead to irreconcilable differences in the marriage. In the state of Florida, these differences are enough to file for a dissolution of marriage (a.k.a. divorce).
What are irreconcilable differences?
Irreconcilable differences is a term used when two spouses simply cannot get along with each other anymore. Whether they disagree on important issues or more mundane day-to-day behavior, the differences are big enough that the spouses believe their marriage is broken beyond repair, even with professional counseling or help.
Some examples of irreconcilable differences may include fundamentally different views on finances, religion, parenting, politics, or relationships with other family members. While no one person did anything “wrong,” the views each person holds are strongly enough entrenched in them that they believe their marriage cannot continue.
Filing for a no-fault divorce in Florida
In the state of Florida, it is possible to file for divorce on the grounds of irreconcilable differences, as it is viewed as a no-fault divorce. A no-fault divorce means no one person is solely to blame for the divorce. Conversely, examples of someone being “at fault” may include behavior such adultery or abuse as one person is accused of wrongdoing in the marriage.
In many instances, a no-fault divorce may move through the process faster since equal blame is placed on both spouses. When considering grounds for divorce, however, it is wise to consult an attorney to discuss your specific case, as it may also have an impact on how assets, custody, and other considerations are handled.
If you’ve reached the point in your marriage when you and your spouse no longer see eye-to-eye, we can help. To schedule a free consultation or simply ask a question, get in touch today with the Vasquez de Lara Law Group.
About the Author
Vanessa Vasquez de Lara is a Miami divorce lawyer, author, and legal commentator with more than 20 years of experience helping families navigate divorce, child custody disputes, and complex family law matters throughout Florida. She is the founder and managing partner of Vasquez de Lara Law Group, one of the largest family-law-only firms serving Miami-Dade and Broward counties, with a team of attorneys dedicated exclusively to divorce and family law.
A graduate of the University of Miami School of Law, Vanessa has been recognized for her professional excellence by being named to the Super Lawyers list every year since 2016. She is also the author of the bestselling book “The Florida Man’s Guide to Getting Divorced” which provides practical insight into the legal, financial, and personal realities of divorce in Florida.
Fully bilingual in English and Spanish, Vanessa is frequently invited to provide legal commentary on family law issues in national media, including appearances on NBC and Univision’s Despierta América.
Beyond her legal work, Vanessa is the founder of the Ricky Supreme Scholars Foundation, created in honor of her brother who lost his life to gun violence. Through the foundation, she provides scholarships to high school students to help them pursue higher education and build brighter futures.
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