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Because my ex-wife has allowed her boyfriend to move in with her, can I now reduce or stop paying alimony entirely?

June 20, 2017

Your former spouse being in a supportive relationship may be grounds for ending or reducing alimony. However, the burden of proof lies with you to demonstrate that this relationship provides the equivalent of a marriage. This can only happen if the court ordered the alimony in the first place or if you both reached a marital settlement agreement that left the alimony as modifiable. To successfully argue for an alimony modification for a supportive relationship, you should consult with an attorney who understands the specific evidence—such as pooled finances or joint assets—that Florida judges require.

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About the Author

Vanessa_Vasquez De Lara Divorce Attorney

Vanessa Vasquez de Lara is a Miami divorce lawyer, author, and legal commentator with more than 20 years of experience helping families navigate divorce, child custody disputes, and complex family law matters throughout Florida. She is the founder and managing partner of Vasquez de Lara Law Group, one of the largest family-law-only firms serving Miami-Dade and Broward counties, with a team of attorneys dedicated exclusively to divorce and family law.

A graduate of the University of Miami School of Law, Vanessa has been recognized for her professional excellence by being named to the Super Lawyers list every year since 2016. She is also the author of the bestselling book “The Florida Man’s Guide to Getting Divorced” which provides practical insight into the legal, financial, and personal realities of divorce in Florida.

Fully bilingual in English and Spanish, Vanessa is frequently invited to provide legal commentary on family law issues in national media, including appearances on NBC and Univision’s Despierta América.

Beyond her legal work, Vanessa is the founder of the Ricky Supreme Scholars Foundation, created in honor of her brother who lost his life to gun violence. Through the foundation, she provides scholarships to high school students to help them pursue higher education and build brighter futures.

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